What is a Pattern?
I refer to a Pattern as any human behavior that repeats itself again and again in interchanges with others throughout the day…week…year and life. These Patterns are structured by the ego to defend and protect against vulnerability, to keep others at bay and the individual safe but small; and most often [...]
In continuing our discussion from the previous post, if this seems somewhat confusing it’s because it may be important to notice that we not only “want” things for ourselves and for others, but there’s also a question of which part of us is doing the wanting!
There are two parts of us: One is our ego [...]
Our whole ego construct is around “i” (small “I”) “me” and “my.” The ego is so busy trying to survive and living in fear that it continues to create a world made up only of itself and its musings. J.R.R. Tolkien portrayed this part of us in the Golum character from his book, [...]
